Not Alone

Another disaster.

In the past I would have dealt with it the only way I know how: alone with sleep. Instead, without thinking I grabbed my phone, scrolled to my favorites and dialed his number.

I’m not much of a crier, but I sobbed and felt my breath come out of me at weird intervals as I told him what had happened. I didn’t want to be that emotional, that hysterical, but sometimes tears get the best of me. “How can they do this? I don’t have parents here, I don’t have anyone! What am I supposed to do now?” I sobbed on the other end of the line.

Calm words reached my ears from the other side, assuring me it would be ok. Did I want to come over? What did I need? And then suddenly, as if knowing my propensities to be alone with my tears, he made the choice for me: “I’m coming over, I’ll see you soon.”


Bloodshot eyes and a puffy face greeted him outside the gate. After enough time had gone by with me trying to hide underneath my blanket, he made me look at him and he said:

“I love you and you love me. From now on we have to face these things together.”

I stamped the ground like a rebellious toddler when he told me what I should to do to make things better. I didn’t want to ask for favors, I didn’t want to be so helpless and vulnerable. But he assured me he would be there with me and he would even talk if I didn’t want to.

So I gave in. I let him help me.

And in the end, he was right. We do have to face things together from now on. And I need to learn to accept that I’m not alone any longer.

I need to learn that it’s ok to crumble and let someone else be strong in my place for a change.

And I need to never, ever forget how incredibly lucky I am to have someone that wants to fight my battles with me instead of running away.


One thought on “Not Alone

  1. I envy you…really!

    But at the same time, i’m so happy for you!Don’t let him go! Don’t push him away!It is your time, don’t waste it….

    Love you Paulinha,


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